Episode 78 — Alexandria: Table Top Storage Move and Apartment Homey Comment (Summer/Fall 2022)

SLII: Surveillance, Life Invasion

Excerpt (bullets)

• Person I formerly had a long-term relationship with asked to meet to move table top from his storage unit to my storage unit—Ok.
• Arrived with bike rack that wasn't mine—continued to hold mine.
• As exited, hinted at wanting to visit apartment because was homey.
• Never said it was homey before.
• Never said liked items placed in home we shared.
• Very unusual.

Full Narrative

During summer/fall 2022, the person I formerly had a long-term relationship with asked to meet to move a table top from his storage unit to my storage unit. Ok. He arrived with a bike rack that was not mine as he continued to hold mine. As we exited he hinted at wanting to visit my apartment because it was homey. Never had he said it was homey. Never had he said he liked the items I placed in the home we shared. Very unusual. The compliment was pretense for gaining access to my new living space.

Category Codes

• SUR.APT (Reconnaissance for apartment access)
• HRM.DV (Post-separation manipulation)