Episode 77 — Alexandria: Person I Formerly Had a Long-Term Relationship With Nice After Move-Out (Summer/Fall 2022)

SLII: Surveillance, Life Invasion, Intimidation

Excerpt (bullets)

• After move-out, person I formerly had a long-term relationship with continued to be nice where previously been abusive.
• Asked to meet at parking lot to exchange t-shirt borrowed and cleaned—Ok.
• At parking lot, asked to have lunch at Hard Times Cafe outside—Ok, was nice, very unusual.
• At one point looked to parking lot, said, this is good.
• Thought unusual because not talking to me directly.
• Message not for me—for people in parking lot surveilling us.
• Was being followed and tracked.

Full Narrative

During summer/fall 2022, the person I formerly had a long-term relationship with continued to be nice where he had previously been abusive. He asked to meet me at a parking lot to exchange the t-shirt he borrowed and cleaned. Ok. At the parking lot he asked to have lunch at the Hard Times Cafe. Outside. Ok. He was nice. Very unusual. At one point he looked to the parking lot and said, this is good. I thought that unusual because he was not talking to me directly. The message was not for me. The message was for people in the parking lot surveilling us. I was being followed and tracked. His comment appeared to coordinate with surveillance operatives.

Category Codes

• SUR.PUB (Parking lot surveillance)
• HRM.DV (Post-separation stalking coordination)