Episode 81 — Alexandria: First Time Person I Formerly Had a Long-Term Relationship With Pretended Not Know Me at Lake Accotink (Fall 2022)

SLII: Surveillance, Life Invasion, Intimidation

Excerpt (bullets)

• Had been texting regularly.
• October Saturday, saw each other at Lake Accotink.
• He came up pretending not to know lake's path when lady interceded.
• Then ran away.
• Texted him could no longer have contact, seeking to meet at storage facility where both had units.
• At end of time together, told me it was small area—what would do if saw him?
• Told him would say hi, then walk on by.
• Then entered car and left.
• Photo: Lake Accotink

Full Narrative

In fall 2022, we had been texting regularly. On an October Saturday we saw each other at Lake Accotink. He came up to me pretending not to know the lake's path when a lady interceded. He then ran away. I texted him that I could no longer have any contact with him seeking to meet at the storage facility where we both had units. At the end of our time together he told me it was a small area and what would I do if I saw him. I told him I would say hi and then walk on by. Then I entered my car and left. The staged accidental encounter tested my reaction and boundaries.

Category Codes

• SUR.PUB (Staged public encounter)
• HRM.DV (Testing victim's response)